It’s been a very intense week.
We traveled all the way across the country from Ft. Lauderdale to Sacramento, starting on Monday Dec. 28th. We finally arrived safely at the family home on January 2nd.
Just before we left, we got a call from the partner of our dearest friend Laura, who told us that he had to take her to the hospital (near Nevada City) the previous day. Later on Monday, he called to say that she had died.
This is all very sudden and unexpected. Laura was only 72.
We are reeling in shock from this. It is too early for me to write in more detail about it, but I will do so soon.
For the past two days, we’ve enjoyed visiting my brother and family in Sacramento. It’s been a healing time; we need to show the love we have for the people still in our lives.
Today, James and I go up to Nevada City to help Laura’s partner deal with some of the “nitty-gritty” stuff associated with this sudden loss. We’ve been frustrated this week, being so far away. Now we can finally be with Desmond.
We’ll leave the Airstream parked in the driveway for a few days until we figure out what to do. Meanwhile, it is important for us to go see Desmond and provide whatever love and support we can give to him.
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January 4, 2010 at 11:10 am
Cynical Queer
Sorry to hear about your friend. Please give Desmond my condolences.
January 6, 2010 at 7:49 pm
Urspo
That was sad news, indeed.
Thank you though for sharing that with us.
January 7, 2010 at 11:28 am
heartinhand
I am so sorry for your loss. Desmond is a lucky person to be surrounded by such caring friends at this difficult time. My thoughts are with you as you go through the journey that is grief.
p.s. you’re both getting super-hairy!
January 8, 2010 at 12:57 pm
paul@ pictures of hairstyles
I am in Fort Lauderdale. Sorry for the loss of your friend.